Net Slut !!!

I don't get it sometimes. I'm a lot better at making friends on the internet then actually talking to people. I'm not really the most outgoing of people. When ever I go to a bar I'm content to stand alone by myself watching videos or whatever. It gets a little lonely sometimes, but being uncomfortable going up and talking to people usually wins out. I mean San Diego pople aren't usually the most outgoing people in the world. To be perfectly honest they are a little stuck on themeselves and quite cliqueish (I hope I spelled that right). Being ignored became a little regular for me. Unless I was with a bunch of people (not a very frequent occurence) then they would usually tell my friends that I was cute and then my friends would introduce me. I due have a tendency to always get along with the bartenders really well. I think it's because I tip them really well or the fact that I happen to tip per drink like you are supposed to. I've even dated a bartender in my lifetime. Otherwise I usually drinking alone which is really sad and pathetic

The internet is a whole different story. I have no trouble making friends over the internet. Of course we area talking a whole different way of meeting. It takes an element of trust (and that's something that I don't give easily so I don't get why I'm into this so much). Yet I have tons of friends that if I even show my face on Gay.com I'm getting bombarded with messages. I have a profile on Bigmuscle.com and I get email and stuff from the most gorgeous guys on the planet. It's flattering and a real ego boost let me tell you. Of course you do have your crazy people out there. I usually just ignore them. It's pretty easy to do. I get all kinds of request. If I charged I could make a good living as an Internet Slut!! I can get pretty annoying if you know what I mean. No I haven't met anyone special yet. I've met someone who has come pretty damn close. The problem with him, if any, is that he is over on the other coast. He's really nice and sweet. And damn, I have some great dreams a night lately because of him. Yes, He's that good. Geez, maybe I am an Internet Slut.

My Cellphone Pic

Finally a pic of me in my blog. Url is to long though.

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First EVAH blog!!!

Okay, I'll actually post a picture of myself on this blog as soon as I figure out how to do it. This is my first blog post ever. I don't really know what to say. I guess I should start out by saying a few things about me. Who ever reads this will see just how I am, and they hopefully want think that I'm too damn crazy.

I'm a 29 y/o guy who lives in San Diego, CA. I"m 5' 9" and 145 lbs. I'm not some well built guy, but I get a lot of compliments on my body anyway. I've got really short brown hair (it's not black dammit!), and really dark brown eyes. Oh and I'm black. I've been told by people that I'm pretty goodlooking, and I think I'll end the vain parts of this now. I'm really a shy guy who like long periods of silence and reading book. Ok, on the real, I'm kind of a geek. I like computers enough to tear them apart and put them back together. I love learning any program that has to do with networking. And yet here I am still trying to figure how to post my pic on this damn thing. I will figure it out. No computer will ever kick my ass! It's a rule. Even with my geek moments, I still love sports especially baseball. I'm also a college football fan (GO SEMINOLES!) Next on my love list is cartoons. My all-time favorite Tom and Jerry. I've gotten into Anime recently. I know it's geeky but I like the on-liners (Yu Yu Hakusho), the plot (Yu Yu Hakusho), and the fight scenes (Yu Yu Hakusho!). Oh and did I tell you that my favorite is Yu Yu Hakusho. I thought I should let you know.

I am a Navy vet and even though I'm a southerner at heart and am usually polite, I cuss like a sailor when I get pissed off. I hope I don't offend anyone. Actually, I really don't care. If you don't like it the back button at the top of your browser really works wonders. I highly recommend it.

Okay, first and for most I'm gay. Yes and I was when I was in the Navy and most people knew it. I have no problems with and never really have. I"m very lucky about that. It could have been a lot worse for me. I won't say that I'm blessed because I even I am spiritual, I'm not religous. I don't have any really great coming out stories. However, I did have this fling with a Marine Lt. when I was on my one and only deployment. That's a story for another time I guess. I will be posting thoughts and rants and raves here when appropriate. I hope you like. And let me know what you think good or bad. I'm pretty sure I can take it.